Being 46,XX

The only difference between a male and a female is a Chromosome . A female has two X chromosome and A male has one X and one Y chromosome . The difference the similarity between two individuals is how the 4 nucleotide bases “A” , “T” , “G” , “C” are organised . We are nothing just a combination of four molecules . It may appear a simple design making various combinations of four molecules but the picture is so huge . A Chromosome , when we consider appears a small entity but has such a huge impact . The Master builder , all the forces of nature work in synchronization to make us what we are today .

We are a lot of what we want ourselves to be . An individual told to design two rooms will put all his input in building the two rooms , he will not be biased towards any room, he will try to make the two as similar as possible . The Master builder has made us all equals . The course of evolution the social structure has made us realize the difference , the difference of one chromosome . Continue reading “Being 46,XX”

Take Care

Most of the time when I am walking through the University , I am walking in my own zone, thinking about my notes , making sure I walk between tiles , my time table and so many other things . Then suddenly some girl just calls out my name , I don’t remember her name but I know the familiar small talk we are going to have . First: Exclamatory hi! . Second: How is it going/ internship question/ wow you are about to graduate questions . Then it’s time to say goodbye and then we both say “Take Care” . These three questions are programmed in my subconscious mind , just to prove myself a human . After the goodbye I am confused for a moment giving a name to the individual I just met . Small talk is not the issue , the thing is we are saying words not knowing their meanings . Even knowing the meaning we are using them recklessly rendering them without meaning progressively . Continue reading “Take Care”


I was an active social media user a few years back , I do use it now but to a very limited extent . Why I limited it to a certain level deals with how I used it before . Looking back it appears so embarrassing , but growing is a process , maybe a few months later I will find my blogs idiotic . Right now I find them cheesy . Just like studying the importance of a particular sequence in the DNA , sometimes it’s mutated or deleted or made non-functional . I deleted the place of social media from my life . It was an eye opener , here are a few things I derived from this detox Continue reading “NETWORK”


We all know all the usual chatter about dolls . especially when it’s a barbie doll . Barbie dolls are right at this time being debated to giving unhealthy obsessions to girls which is a little true to some extent . So here is my Barbie story from times when people would not get offended easily . Continue reading “PINK”

Just another feeling

Happiness is a feeling, being sad is a feeling but I feel Anger is also a feeling but it is not respected and accepted as it should be . Just imagine a person smiling ,do you like them ? sure you do. Now imagine the same person with a frown , I am sure you get no good vibes ,probably you are thinking that this person is somehow in someway wrong .Why is a person who seems angry judged as bad . I mean why don’t we accept this expression as we accept happiness and sadness . Continue reading “Just another feeling”

Top of my list

I started reading novels in fifth grade Nancy Drew. I read the whole set we had in our school library and then read some other writers and when I was in tenth grade I got this novel Long road home by Danielle Steel . It was one of the few things that made me cry , I am not the one who shed tears easily .

My friends suggest me writers and I read them and yes I didn’t felt them and they end up thinking I am some sort of emotionless alien .The point here is why I love Danielle Steel and have a hard time accepting other novelists.

They are love stories like other novelists write but better.

The women are in love but it is not the only thing they have in their life all the women are at a good spot in their professional front and sometimes the best . Why that appeals to me because, not all lives are driven by love for another person , you need to have a life weather you have some one to love you are not . The women are great professionals and love their work . This inspires me because we are in a time where women are discovering their identities as professionals , I can say at least 10 years back not all women could step out of their homes to do work which gives them financial independence or any sort of independence at least in India, and it makes me angry and disgusted to some extent when women are projected as fairies, innocent and vulnerable and classified to only have a love story and have no life other than that . Like this women died in the novel and people will remember of how she loved why not ,why not the women dies and people respect her for what a flare she had on work besides her love story .

Reading Danielle Steel the women are innocent they cry for if their husband betrayed them or whatever the reason but they are fighters who do not indulge in self pity . Intense love stories but keeping the women so strong it inspires me to have a professional career where I have to work incessantly to get to the top . You will wonder how can I derive such inspiration from a love story , well you have to read Danielle Steel .

Large estates, Ranches and detailed description , you do not realize but the whole area is embedded in your mind, and you simply forget time while reading and no matter how many times I read the same book it seems fresh .